i’m not interested in becoming a jehovah’s witness but have nothing against people who are, or whatever religion someone chooses to follow for that matter.
i am here because i have some questions regarding my family and i. .
my fiancé stopped going to church prior to us meeting.
I know of a girl who married an ex JW. Then she got pregnant and he got reinstated so he could see his family. Now her child is dying from a blood disease and guess who can't have a transfusion?
Guess she will also see her child die...
Give him the ring back and walk away. It will not end well.
sorry for the grammar and spelling errors if any..(me 29 raised in the org) (gf 25 not raised) just left her at the hospital with (call her sara).. sara had just ingested half a bottle of her antidepressant pill and half a bottle of melatonin.
this took place after a discussion we where having about a recent event that took place.
long story short, sara told me she slept with my best friend/coworker(call him tim) after a argument we had, the morning after it supposedly happened.. i was pretty torn but i was maintaining and i even thought sara was lying because tim was such a good friend.
An opinion: Walk away from Sara. She has her family and doctor who know her and to support her. Not your monkey, not your circus. Hard but true.
BUT
get thyself to a therapist experienced with people leaving cults. Get your self the help YOU need to build a great life. Then when you are in that good place, love will find you.
i've thought about keeping this to myself but i'm still confused on what i should do.. my ex wife(never been a jw) and myself(raised in the org till 16)have been reconnecting these past few weeks.
we been divorced for almost 10 years, we got married when we where pretty young, and it didnt last long.. fast forward 10 years, her and i have been reconnecting and things are getting semi serious.. she got remarried, divorced again, and recently broke up with her gf.
so in the past 10 years she has only been with 3 people (including myself) and here comes me "a sucker with no self esteem".
See a therapist if you have serious intent to pursue this course.
as for an opinion, walk away. No good comes from revisiting the past.
You want to go slow, she won't. even if she says she will. You will get drawn into the drama life she has created. How will you both deal with the Bi side of her? An open relationship? or do you expect her to be monogamous?
It is very tempting to go back to familiarity rather than be alone or pursue someone else. All good relationships require some 'maintenance work' but shouldn't require major repairs under the hood just to get it started.
i had an interview on bbc one.
before i write about it and the jws, just a quick reminder.
since my book was published two years ago, jws avoid me even though i am not disfellowshipped.
The best example I ever set for my kids was to live a happy life.
Their mother on the other hand has almost literally flushed her life down the toilet.
so much for the happiest people on earth...
i haven’t posted in awhile.
my wife asked me after the year 2000 came and went without fanfare(because the wt organization said all the “new world” would be here within this 20th century would end), “ what would it take for you to leave the truth?”.
my reply was “ if i turn 60 in this “system of things”.
I just need to come to grips that I am mortal and this will all end for me one day and that is what sucks!
Perhaps this may help James... You have always been mortal even as a JW.
AT any time past you could have died from illness or accident. It could have all ended already, even IF you were to attain a resurrection later. And then, according to WT you would still be mortal. Eternal life is not immortality. The eternal life was at 'jehovahs' kindness and well, could be snuffed out anytime especially in that first 1000 years if you somehow failed to please the governing body....
on 14 november 2018, australian-based barristers david bennett ac, qc and james gibson presented to watchtower australia and the jehovah’s witnesses organisation their commissioned review and opinion on the findings and recommendations of the royal commission into the institutional responses to child sexual abuse as it related to jehovah’s witnesses.. .
the review entitled “review of the commission’s investigation into jehovah’s witnesses and its ensuing reports” was divided into four parts, as follows:.
part one considered the history and powers of royal commissions in general.. .
I am asking literally, what was the point? It’s not rhetorical. If the report is internal, not for outside readership, and confirms Watchtower’s own opinions, then what was the point of it? I am curious.
Me too.
Was this commissioned report by a cult friendly old fart (I really don't give two squats about his age or status) part of some official rebuttal/appeal before the Royal Commission gets to bitch slap the WT into the level of submission expected by all the other institutions OR just the WT applying a soothing salve of 'that wasn't fair' to their bruised ego?
Is the Royal Commission getting ready to hand out punishments and enforcements? OR is it all over... move along, nothing to see here?
i haven’t posted in awhile.
my wife asked me after the year 2000 came and went without fanfare(because the wt organization said all the “new world” would be here within this 20th century would end), “ what would it take for you to leave the truth?”.
my reply was “ if i turn 60 in this “system of things”.
I’m happy I woke up, but sad not knowing what lies ahead.
I was always wired to live, not die. The thought of dying had never been in my vocabulary and scares the sh_t out of me!
I walked away 22 years ago, woke up about 10 years ago. Having to plan for the future I was told would never come, ie: old age and death, well, I was so far behind the 8 ball, still am. Worked my arse off for the last 10 years to try to get financially secure and lost sight of living in the now.
Don't be like me.
Make the most of every day you have with your wife and family. Your future is unwritten. You may live to 100 yet, make it a good one.
Lately I have been tuning into a quote by Helen Keller:
after all the attention the royal commission focused on the wt and the damning report that came out, has anything changed at the congregational level or to wt policy?.
i am getting the sense from what i have found that really it accomplished little more than embarrassing the wt and upsetting the jws for a while.. am i wrong in that thought?.
oz.
I would have hoped or even expected the Govt of Australia and the Royal Commission to have had teeth but alas, it seems it was just a huge waste of tax payers money gathering information that would never be used to actually DO anything.
Typical bureaucracy outcome
Shameful.
IMO it goes to show that the Govt here only pays lip service to the whole issue of child abuse.
if you have one, do cops stop you to make sure it is not too dark?
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On my pony, as dark as I could get. No trouble so far...but then again, I drive it like grandpa and don't draw attention to myself
after all the attention the royal commission focused on the wt and the damning report that came out, has anything changed at the congregational level or to wt policy?.
i am getting the sense from what i have found that really it accomplished little more than embarrassing the wt and upsetting the jws for a while.. am i wrong in that thought?.
oz.
After all the attention the Royal commission focused on the WT and the damning report that came out, has anything changed at the congregational level or to WT policy?
I am getting the sense from what I have found that really it accomplished little more than embarrassing the WT and upsetting the JWs for a while.
Am I wrong in that thought?
Oz
